First of all… Your success with meeting women in bars will come down to several things but never let the conversation become boring or conversational! As soon as the conversation gets “boring” the women will move on and never come back. There are just to many distractions and to much excitement to talk about your work day. When meeting women in bars or clubs you have to be able to move the conversation on with ease and throw in some arrogance and comedy or wit in order to stand out from the crowd.
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Even if she brings up the topic of politics family or work she wont be interested in talking about them as she is just being polite – MOVE the conversation on. Make fun of some guys dance moves or order her a drink – ANYTHING to move away from boring. Making fun of other guys who are perhaps trying hard but obviously don’t fit in automatically puts you in the alpha state but you have to know how to say it. Come across “lame college dude” and your screwed. A great way to talk to women in bars is to put the pressure back on the women and liven up the energy between you. Do this by asking HER to tell her a joke or story about herself that is worth listening to.
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You can even try small fun games so that the initial conversation does not seem to heavy and automatic. Picking up women in clubs and bars is easy if you go about it the way women want you to. Most men try way to hard and get all serious about it but you will notice that the best are actually very relaxed and at home chatting to women in bars. Cold calling chicks in bars can be tough if you cant come up with interesting things to say so maybe a couple of beers to loosen the tongue will work for you.
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DONT attempt to pick up chicks drunk. It’s important that you are the one controlling the conversation and leave from the encounter FIRST. It’s ok… You will meet her again later on but it will give you and her a chance to think about the encounter. A funny game to play: Ask for her name and then using each letter of her name you describe what you think she is like. Obviously really long hard to spell names could get difficult. Say her name was Sarah… Emphasize the first word. Sarah huh? How would I describe sarah well… SO willing to please. ALWAS early to class. REALLY nerdy. Attention seeking. Happens to be have been staring at me all night.
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Am I right? ……. Silence. Ok you try me… It works because: You are interesting AND you are in control. These tips should get you started… …but if you want to MASTER this skill, to the point that you can have fun, flirty conversations with any woman, and leave them with the intense desire to see you again, then you need to go get yourself a trial copy of my “Double Your Dating eBook”. In it, I’ll share with you killer tips on how to talk to women, how to approach them and get numbers quickly, free and fun date ideas, and how to take things to a physical level smoothly and without rejection. This book is the best way for you to drastically improve your success with women, and you can start using the tips and techniques – and see results – IMMEDIATELY. This one tip corrects a deadly mistake almost EVERY man makes with women – you’ll see what I mean…)